My Understanding of Achieving Success-1

Success means more than money, fiancé or managing tasks well. It’s also about getting the best out of yourself, gaining respect controlling stress and leading a happy life, calm & fulfilling life. We often  try  to solve  our problems  by looking  for external  solutions  only to  get frustrated  when  the problem  keep  showing up  over and  over again.  But real solutions lie within ourselves.  

We must try to learn to change ourselves rather than trying  to change  the circumstances  or people   in our  life.  I combine    practical advice   with  simple , profound  wisdom  which will  help you  become  and  stay  truly  successful.

A formula for living success from the inside out   

To have a fulfilling, joyful and successful life, it is essential to trust:- 

Be   - Be yourself. Know who you really are. Know whats more important to you. Know what makes you unique. know what you do best.  This intro- spection and clarity will take you into second stage.

Do   - Do those things you do best. Use your gifts and talents in a way    that help others touch people in meaningful ways. Leave a lasting legacy.  This takes you to third stage.

Have - Have a life not just a lifestyle.  A life oriented around what’s most important to you.  A life spent with those who matter most to you.  A life with financial rewards for doing what you love to do.

How to identify and eliminate what drains you.  

What drains you the things you put up with, the things that bug you, and the things you have   neglected.  What drain you can be little things and big things.  These things are what I call the physical, mental, and emotional clutter in your life.  They hold you back and are a huge drain on your energy level.  You simply  don’t have  the space  or the  capability  to bring   new things  into your  mental, emotional  and physical environment all because  your life  is packed, full of clutter.  Eliminating what drains you is one of the first thing one must do.

Start by making a list of 5 things  that are  draining  you in each  of these  areas, work, home  and relationship,  Be specific about what you are  putting up with what or  who is  bugging you  and what you are  neglecting  and putting  off then ask yourself “ Am I  willing  to start  eliminating what drains  me ?” if your answer is “yes” , then do whatever  it takes  to eliminate  those things  this may  seem  overwhelming at first  but stick with  it, the rewards  are worth  it.  One by one, clear the clutter and create new space you will enjoy  the lighter     load.

How to be irresistibly attractive  
 

Being irresistibly attractive is about energy.  It’s about your energy and the energy of the people with whom you relate. We all are energy fields, energy is all around us.  Its invisible, it’s real, and it’s very powerful.  And it’s your    energy that directs how you live success …. from inside out.  Think of it this way your energy extents out around you and bumps up against the person next to you.  The person’s energy next to you bumps up against you and your energy.

Think about someone  you know  who is very needy or someone  who  has lots of problems what  kind of people  do you  think  they attract and have  around them? Right they attract other needy people or people with lots of problems.  Because  of the  negative  energy they are putting  out, they are  actually repelling the kind of positive, successful  people  they’d like  to be around.

Notice the kind of energy you are putting out into your world.  It is positive or negative? Remember that “ like  attracts like “ if you are  not happy  with what’s  coming  back  to you, then take  a look  at the  kind  of energy you are  putting  out there  to begin  with in  the form of  your thoughts, words  attitudes and actions.

Your life is a mirror that reflects back to you what you have put out into  the world.  Make sure you are sending out what you want back.

Listening to your inner voice   

Success from the inside out is a way of life.  So, ask yourself, how does one live success from the inside out? Well, it all starts with listening.  Listening  to what  that still small voice  within you is  saying, that  voice is coming  to you  straight  from your  heart  and  its  very  wise  it has all the  answers if only you  would just listen to it.

Begin to practice listening  to your  inner voice  Every morning  take  5 minutes before you start  your day  to set  & reflect,  meditate.  Get comfortable, don’t think.  And if morning isn’t the best     time for you  then do it  in the  evening  before  you  go to  bed you will  be more  relaxed  and happy.

Your body wisdom speaks: Are you listening 

Another way to listen to your self is to check in with your body wisdom.  The easiest way is to begin noticing how you are breathing. Is it with shallow or full breaths? If shallow, ask yourself what’s stressing you what you are angry  about? Or what you are afraid of? Take 3 to 5 deep  breath  (or more to  return  your breathing to normal,  then figure out   what’s  its all  about  and take  the appropriate  actions.

Why it is important to participate in Flow activities  
  

Flow activities are the enjoyable things we do in life.  When we  participate  in a flow  activity  time stand still, our  minds  are freed up, and a space  opens  where  our self conscious  thoughts can come  to the  surface.         

How often  we keep mulling over a problem and  just can’t come  up with a solution  no matter how  long  or how  hard  you try  to do so ? And when you do something that is relaxing and fun, the answer magically appears in your  consciousness.  Like      my one of favorite flow activity is writing when I set down to write. .  I lose complete track   of time.  As a  matter  of  fact , I often set my  time to remind  me to  eat  or make  sure   I leave  on time  for other  commitments.  If I don’t forget  to eat or I am  late for  my appointment  this is  what happens  with flow  activities .  You are so consumed by the  activity  that you are totally  oblivious to what’s happening around you.