Wrong
career decision can ruin our whole life leading to total regret, disappointment
and unhappiness.
Excessive
involvement & hand holding will only backfire as thereafter the child needs
constant direction and can never become self-sufficient decision maker ever.
Parents
should not try to live their dream through their children .Give children the
space to identify their dreams, interests, passions and ambitions while
analyzing their personal characteristics, values, strengths, weaknesses, talents
& abilities.
By
doing what they like they will not only give them their best but will enjoy the
work also.
Parents
must render experienced counsel, support and sounding board and subtly guide
their children without ruffling any feathers. Instead of dictating suggestion,
logically explain the pros and cons with the focus firmly fixed on your
son/daughter’s likes & strengths.
Parents
must act as a steering wheel in a car rather than a driver itself. Sitting
together and having open discussion will build a healthy understanding.
Let
the children make his own mistakes and learn from them. Parents must remain in
background ever ready to offer help
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