A six step process to help
your Re-entry.
Be a
smooth ride
Desire
Define the essence of what re-entry will bring you. More time money, connection, love, well-being, success, fulfillment, fun, peace
of mind. That’s where the motivation lays,
your touch stone. If it is not your heart’s
desire, if someone’s “shouldering” on you, then drop it. Or refine it until it is.
Intention
State out loud or write down what it is you want. That is the intention you are sending out to the
universe. The universe will meet you half way to help you co-relate the results.
Commitments
Pledge to yourself that you will do whatever it takes to make
this smooth re-entry happens.
Support
Support comes from three places- Internal strength, other
people and a higher power. Decide which system
will best support you, set up an accountability check in system with select friend
& colleagues. Hire a coach. Pray, meditate, take time for yourself.
Action
Identify the action steps you need to take, Run then by
someone else for a reality check. Reconnect to
taking the actions necessary
for a smooth re-entry and
then do whether it takes
to make that happen.
Fine
tune
Action is the
fifth step rather than the first. Many people
“just do it” without any reflection then hit bumpy terrain and wonder why they
falters or stop. Taking time
to do the first four steps,
will set your environment up for
success from inside out..
Go through
each of the first 4 steps in those entry processes. This won’t
take long then and only then, do steps
5 and 6 Now you are
back in the swing of things .Reap the results of your
actions and enjoy a smooth reentry.
Three sources of
support for success minded people
Success
minded people know that their success is a team effort. The high level support
comes from three places
Your
inner self
The wisdom part of you, your initiation. The voice within.
The
angel next door
People who impact you in significant and profound way they
can be mentor coach, minister or teacher.
These are the people who encourage you to take the road less traveled, who embolden you to stretch to reach your full potential.
A
higher power
Through prayer and meditation. Ask for guidance and assistances from
God. You may receive what you asked for
or you may receive something even greater that looks completely different.
Five steps to beating the
comparison blues
Watch
out for comparison blues. They sneak up on you without warning. One minute you are on top of the world and
the next minute you are in the pits. You
don’t even know what hit you. All you know
is that you are now down in the dump and it feels crummy. Don’t despair It happens to everyone and
there is no antidote.
Don’t
let comparison blues block you from your success. Don’t let it keep you captive either. If you find
yourself in the clutches if comparison blues quickly take the following “comparison Blues Antidote:-
Be aware that
you are comparing yourself to someone else.
Acknowledge that you are unique with your
own special talents and gifts.
Ask yourself there is something
about the other person
you did honesty like for yourself.
If so, decide what small action you can take
to start getting you there and do it right way.
If the comparisons persist, do a reality
check talk to a supportive friend, mentor or coach who can quickly point you
back to reality.
The
biggest clue is when you find yourself feeling inadequate all of a sudden;
chances are good that you are comparing yourself to someone else. Catch yourself a soon as you can. Immediately take the comparison blues antidote
and stop singing the comparison blues.
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