Monday, July 15, 2013

My Understanding of Achieving Success-8



Ease your way through career change “An emotional survival kit”. 

Following   is an emotional survival kit filled with three tools  to help  navigate you through this transition

Acknowledge your emotions   

Change of  any kind  stirs   all types  of   emotions, whether  its  change  you’ve  chosen or change  that’s been  forced  upon you.  Acknowledge the emotions, feel them and release.  If you don’t, the emotions will hold you back.  What you hide from will run you.  And dwelling on emotion will keep you struck.  Give emotions the importance they deserve Talk to a trusted friend.  Write about your feelings Cry, Get angry, feel the fear.  Do something physical to release them.  Unresolved anger will take expression in different from which can be harmful.

Monitor your thoughts 

What you focus on gets bigger. If you have negative thoughts you will get negative results.  If you have positive thoughts then you will get positive results.  Keep a sharp look   at your thoughts and self talks. Thinking “No one will hire me at my age will not move on to success “. Thinking  They are  fortunate  to hire me  will all  my  wisdom  and experience “ will.  Thoughts   are a self fulfilling prophecy.  Make sure you maintain a positive attitude.  Reframe those negative thoughts into positive once.   

Consider the possibilities. 

Get together with your friends and family.  Brainstorm all the possibilities  that are new opening   up to  you, such  as starting  a home  based  business, temporary  or part  time work, changing carriers going  back to school, contract  work, taking  time  off to  with family, traveling, turning a hobby in to a business  and soon.  Get outrageous.  Be excited. The sky is the limit.

Continuously acknowledge  your  emotions  and monitor  your thoughts  so that you can  be fully  open to consider  the possibilities     This is an ongoing  process If you  let your  heavy  emotions  and negative  thoughts  camp out  rent free  in your  consciousness then you won’t have  the space  available  for the  possibilities  to shine through

More tools  to ease your  way through career change   

These  three tools  complement  your  emotional  survival  kit to help you more into your  new career  as quickly  and as easily  as possible.

Take stock of your finances  

Identify your monthly expenses.  Determine  what  you   have in  savings  and investments.  Eliminate unnecessary expenses.  Ask for financial help if you need it. Knowledge brings with it please of mind.  Find out exactly what you have, what you will need and how or where to get it. Expert advice is often just what you need to get you where you want to go.  Move quickly     and easily and with less stress

Use available resources    

They can  be is the form  of skills, training for resume  writing, interviewing techniques  and salary negotiation  There can  also  be employee assistance  programme’s,  career  planning  workshop and online career programs.   

Get experts Help     

You don’t need to carry the load all by yourself and loved ones can be limited in the counsel they give.  Expert  and objective  assistance  is often  just  the  catalyst  you need to get you  where  you want  to go more quickly and  easily  and with less stress.  Getting bogged down in the emotions? Go to a therapist.  Can’t figure out your finances? See a financial planner.

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