Why Men Cheat

Your sudden weight gain or husbands   dissatisfaction  in bed is not  what  prompts  him to  cheat says  best settings  authors  and  marriage  councilors  who in their new  research  has  unraveled  what makes  men stray  for their new book “ why  men stray and what  you can do  to prevent it “  New man  spent  two  years  studying  100 men  who had  affairs  and 100 men  who were  faithful,  and he found  that men  cheat  not because  the other women  is prettier  and slimmer  but because  they are not  emotionally satisfied  with their  wives or  girlfriends.

Only eight percent of the cheating  men said, it  was sensual dissatisfaction  at home and  88 percent   said the mistress  was not better looking  or  in  better   shape  than their  wife.  The number   one reason behind  their  cheating  was the  emotional  dissatisfaction  they  felt  in their  marriage  and  the  emotional connection  they  unfortunately  developed  in the affair.   Study found that   69 %  men  had    initially thought  they  would  never  cheat  and  were actually  surprised  at their  own insecurity.

They didn’t think  they’d  fall into  an illicit  relationship  because  they were  in need of some  appreciation  and admiration. But  it doesn’t  mean that the blame  lied with  the women,  as many  women  are  interested  in learning  what  they  would  have  done  to prevent  their  partners  adultery.

It tells women  that emotional  connection at home  is by far the  most  important  way to develop  a happy marriage  and reduce  the risk  of cheating.

According to Newman, the sign of cheating/adultery are:-

           

            He spends more time away from home. 

            You have sex infrequently.

            He avoids contact with you.

            He criticizes you very often.

            He starts fighting with you. 

            He may start talking  about other woman.