Tips

TIPS FOR WORKING SUCCESSFULLY IN A GROUP

Meet people properly Introduction, exchange contact information

Find things you have in common

Try for optional meeting conditions - Meet over a  meal , food  softens a meeting 

Let everyone talk

Check ego at the door

Praise each other

Phrase alternatives as questions

LOOK FOR THE BEST IN EVERYBODY

If you wait long enough, people will surprise and impress you.

When you are frustrated with people , when  they  have  made  you angry , it just  may be  because  you  haven’t  given  them  enough time

WATCH WHAT THEY DO NOT WHAT THEY SAY

When  it comes to men  you are  romantically  interested  in you,  it’s really  simple  Just ignore everything  they  say  and pay  attention  to what  they do

IF YOU DON’T SUCCEED AT FIRST

Dance with the one who brings you.

Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity

Weather you think you can or can’t you are right.

Never focus on little things/issues while ignoring major ones

Its not how hard you hit, it’s how hard you   get hit and keep moving forward

BE THE FIRST PENGUIN

Experience is what you get when you didn’t get what you wanted

Failure is just not acceptable, it’s often essential

When first  penguins are about to jump  into  water  that might  contain predators,  well  somebody  got to  be the  first  penguins

The person who failed often knows how to avoid future failures. The person who knows only success can be more oblivious to all the pit falls.

Best short cut is two words, “work hard”.  Hard work is like compounded interest in the bank.  The reward builds faster.

Go out and do for others what   somebody did for you.

Another way to be prepared is to think negatively

Education in propriety is ornamental and in adversely is substance

When you go into wilderness, the only thing you can count on is what you take with you.  Be prepared     

A BAD APOLOGY IS WORSE THAN NO APOLOGY

A good apology is like an antibiotic, a bad apology is like rubbing salt in the wound

TELL THE TRUTH

Tell the truth, all the time

You are only as good as your words

Honesty is not only morally right, it is also efficient.  In a culture where everyone tells the truth you can save a lot of time double checking

Lying like many short term strategies is ineffective in long run. You run into people again later and they remember you lied to them.  And they tell lots of other people about it

BE A COMMUNITARIAN

Everyone has to contribute to the common good.  To not do so can be described in one word, selfish.  When we are connected to others, we become better people.

Keep a healthy balance between optimism and realism