Man & Woman

Man and woman are like negative and positive poles of electricity.  They are pulled towards each other magnetically.  They are opposite poles, hence conflict is natural.  But through understanding, through compassion, through love, through liking into each other’s world and trying to be sympathetic to it all the problems can be solved.

No man wants to get rid of women.  He wants to have no responsibility.  He wants to enjoy women, but only as a fun. He does not want to take all other responsibilities that come with it.

Only extremes can fall in love, and only extremes can enjoy intimacy.  Only extreme attracts each other.

Facts on Sexuality 

Man has capacity for only one orgasm woman has the capacity for multiple orgasms.

Man’s sex is local genitals.  Women’s sexuality, sensuality is spread all over the body.  Its takes longer time for her to warm up and before she even gets warmed up, the man is finished.  He turns his back towards her and starts snoring.

For reproduction orgasm is not necessary.  But for spiritual growth orgasm is necessity.

Two tings happens in orgasm; one the mind stops it becomes for a moment, no mind.  Secondly, time stops.  That single moment of orgasmic joy is so immense and so fulfilling that it is equal to eternity.

A woman is like a musical instrument for whole body has immense sensitivity and that sensitivity should be aroused.   So there is a need for foreplay.  And after making love, the man should not go to sleep; that is ugly, uncivilized, uncultured.  A woman who has given you such joy needs some after play to just out of gratitude.

Neither man nor woman is monogamous.  Psychologically they are polygamous.  Their whole psychology is forced against their nature.  And because woman is dependent on man.  She had to suffer all kinds of insults, because man was the master he was the owner, he had all the money.  To satisfy polygamous nature, man created prostitutes.  Prostitutes are by product of marriage.

Unless you lose control while making love, you will not have an orgasmic pleasure.

 Cerebral sex is not authentic.  Sex should be spontaneous.  Create the situations.

The orgasmic experience is the experience of merging and melting, egolessness, timelessness.

Vagina is absolutely insensitive.  It feels nothing.  Women’s orgasm is uncontrolled.  Women can make love and produce children without knowing orgasm.

Once you have sexual relationship with a woman.  She cannot have respect for you because she knows you have used her.

 Revenge always destroys you.  Reaction always destroys you.

 Biologically man is attracted to woman, women are attracted to men, but that attraction cannot remain forever.  You are attracted to something which is challenge to get.  You see a beautiful man, a beautiful woman, you are attracted.  Tomorrow the same women will not look so beautiful.  As the days pass the man and the woman both will feel they are imprisoned.  They have known each other geography completely.  First it was an unknown territory to be discovered. Now, there is nothing to be discovered.  And go on repeating the same words and the same act looks mechanically.  That’s why passion turns into hate.

Every woman wants to kill the husband.   It is another matter that she does not kill him, because if she kills him what will she do?  She is not educated, she has no experience.  The husband, every husband wants to get rid of women.