Motherhood

Never treat the child as yours, never posses the child, it comes through you but it is not yours.

Only a thing can be possessed, a house can be possessed a car can be possessed, never a person.

Treat the children as you treat the ground up person.  Treat the child with great respect.  Do not try to impose anything on child.  Simply give him/her freedom to explore the world.  Help him/her to become more powerful. Never give him direction. Give him energy, give him protection, give him security.  Give him all that he needs to go farther away from you to explore the world.

Don’t listen to morality, don’t listen to religions, don’t listen to culture, listen to nature. What so ever is natural is good even if sometimes it is very difficult for you, very uncomfortable for you.

Every child is primitive, a barbarian, mother has to civilize.  Mother has to give him/her culture.  Teach him/her ways of life.  It’s a great work. 

Don’t take it too seriously; otherwise, you will destroy the child. 

Millions of husbands are henpecked, for the simple reason that their mothers were too strong.  It has nothing to do with the wife; they are simply projecting the mother on the wife.  The wife is only a new edition of the mother. 

Being motherly means capable of understood love, loving the person for the sheer joy, helping the person to grow for the sheer joy of seeing somebody grow.