The Mind

To be male or to be female is more a question of psychology than of physiology. one may be male physiologically and may not be a male psychologically and vice versa.

Non resistance is the essence of feminine grace.  Science is male, religion is female. 

Children who are born left handed are basically irrational, intuitive, non mathematical non Euclidian, they are dangerous for society, so it forces them in every way to become right handed. 

Fighting with anybody is dangerous because you become like your enemy. That is one of the greatest problems of the humanity.  Once you fight with somebody, by and by you have to use the same technique and the same way. Then the enemy may be defeated but by the time he is defeated you have become your own enemy.  Just superficial things change, deep down the same conflict remains.  The conflict is in man.  Unless it is resolved there it cannot be resolved anywhere else.  The politics is within you.  It is between two parts of the mind.

All relationship becomes casual by and by.  People are afraid of any sort of commitment, because they have realized that whenever you become related too much, the reality excepts and your inner conflict starts being reflected by  the other and then life becomes ugly horrible, intolerable. 

If the left hemisphere brain goes on dominating you, you will live a very successful life.  So successful that by the time you are forty, you will have ulcers.  By the time you are forty five, you will have at least one or two heart attacks.  By the time you are fifty, you will be almost dead, but successfully dead.  You may become a great scientist, but you will never become a great being.  You may accumulate enough of wealth but you will lose all that is of worth.  You may conquer the whole world like an Alexander, but your own inner territory will remain unconquered.

There are many attractions to follow the left hemisphere brains i.e. the worldly brain.  It is more concerned with cars, money, houses, power, and prestige.  That is the orientation of a man who in India we call a grahastha a households.  The right hemisphere brain is the orientation of the Sanyasi, one who is more interested in his own inner being his inner peace, his blissfulness and is less concerned about things.  If they come easy, good, if they don’t come that is also good.  He is more concerned with the moment, less covered with the future, more covered with the poetry of life, less concerned with the arithmetic of it.                                                                                                                      

There is a way to follow life, through arithmetic and there is another way to follow the life, through dreams, through dreams and visions.  They are totally different.    

Feminine mind has qualities, the negative and the positive.  The positive is love, the negative is jealously, the positive is sharing, the negative is possessiveness, the positive is waiting, and the negative is lethargy.

Male mind has a positive quality that he enquiries, goes in search and the negative quality that he always doubts.  Another positive quality of man is that be is in search of rest and a negative quality he is restless.  

The woman has to drop jealously, she has to drop, hatred.  The man has to drop logic and be a little more loving.  A woman’s whole life is love.  For a man life is a big thing.  Love is only a small part in it.  He can sacrifice love for money, for power for prestige. For anything he can sacrifice love.  Woman can not sacrifice love for anything everything is below love.  Woman has courage and man should learn much from women. 

With other women they have a relationship only of jealousy.  If she has better clothes, if she has better ornaments, if she has good ear, if she has better house.  Every woman is jealous of every other woman, then naturally this is one of the fundamental cause of their slavery.  They are their own enemies, they cannot become a force. 

Love is the phenomenon of moment.  If it happens again in the next moment, you are blessed, if it does not happen you should be thankful that at least it did happened before. Remains open, perhaps may happens again if not with the same person then with another person, the question is not the person the question is of love.  Love should remain flowing it should not be stopped. 

You cannot get love from a slave.  You cannot get love from your possessions, from your chair, table, house, your furniture you cannot get love. You can get love only from a free agent whose uniqueness is respected by you, whose freedom is respected by you.

Man starts learning feminine qualities. And feminine qualities are the only qualities worth having. “Love, Trust, beauty, sincerity, truthfulness and authenticity”.