Why Mars and Venus Collide -1

Women mistakingly  except  men to react and behave  the way women  do  while  men  continue  to misunderstand  what women  really  needs.

Having a job or career is often no longer a choice for most women but a necessity.

Being equals does not mean men and women are the same or should   be the same.

Unrealistic expectations make changing gender roles nearly impossible.

As men  cling to old  expectation,  women  are creating  new  expectation  that are  equally  unrealistic.

Returning home after work causes most women stress levels to increase.

Women today are so tired and stressed that they expect a happy   life to greet them at home.

When women become men, men lose purpose meaning and inspiration in life.

Men tend to work   best on projects rather than in routines.

A man loses interest when he senses that he   can’t   continue to meet woman’s expectations.

When stress is gone our differences are never a problem.

The problem is never just our   partner but our own inability to cope with stress.

To yield to woman unrealistic expectations will eventually exhaust a man.

Instead of becoming more sensitive, men need to become sensitive   to the needs of women.

A women  sensitively  which  gives her the  ability  to enjoy  and appreciate the little  things  in life,  is a  major  turn  on to them

By giving less a woman can actually be more supportive of her partner.

A women  response  to his  action  is much  more  important  than  anything  she  can ever directly  do for him.

You can only appreciate what you have when you authentically feel a need for it.

A needy man is a huge turn off to women.

Many successful women are repelled by the idea that they might need a man.

Men need to feel needed and women need to feel they are not alone.

Real love does not demand perfection but actually embraces imperfection.

If a man forgets  a women’s  need or a woman  remembers  his  mistakes,   it doesn’t means  they don’t  love  each other.

Instead of seeing  our different  stress reactions  as a problem  we need  to  recognize that our  attempts  to change  our  partners  are most  often  the real  problem.

A women’s greatest challenge is to begin caring for herself as much as she is caring for others.

Leaving a man alone and ignoring him is sometimes the best way to support him.

While  women tend to reach  out to take  in more  information  under stress, men  tend to  focus  on determining  the most important  thing  to do.

When  man have  little  to say,  women  often  take  it personally  as it  doesn’t   want to share.

When women talk, a man is actually aware of the time.  She is talking and feels an inner urgency to help her solve her problems.

Looking at women is a healthy   instinct in men.

Emotions enhance a woman memory.

A woman’s  enormous  capacity  for joy,  delight and fulfillment  is the fuel that lets  man  know  that  he makes  a difference.

By focusing  on giving  ourselves  what we need,  we would  have  more  to give  our partners.