Appreciating and accepting
what he does or forgiving
him for what he neglects
to do is the most supportive
way a woman can treat a man.
Shifting
from one problem to an easier problem to solve can help rebuild a man
testosterone level.
Oxytocin
is the feel good hormone from Venus, is the love and bounding hormone.
Oxytocin
decreases when a woman fees alone, ignored, unsupported or that she does not
matter.
Trust
and the anticipation of getting needs met is a potent oxytocin producer.
Talking
about problems with someone you love can elevate oxytocin levels on Venus.
Most
women unlike men are not interested in sex when they are stressed.
A women
body has almost twice the endurance of a man’s.
It
is inconceivable to women that a man can effortlessly sit and not think about
things.
A woman
has more body fat that a man and that is what gives her lasting energy.
Woman
talk for a variety of reasons that can have nothing to do with solving a
problem.
Every
victory motivates a man to do more.
When
a man can do little things and get a big response he gets the energy and the
drive to more.
When
a woman is not getting what she needs she feels an urge to give more.
Whatever
makes a man feel successful will grab his attention and give him energy.
Man
need love just as woman, they just need in different ways.
A
man’s sense of self esteem is centered around what he can do.
A man
will ask for help but only after he feels he has done everything he can on his
own.
A
man looks for someone he can be successful in loving.
On Venus,
every gift of love scores equals to every other gift of love no matter how big
or small.
Talking
without solving any problem can create a profound change.
Men
shopping with the partners may feel
exhausted as if they are wandering in the desert.
For
shopping to be a stress reducing
activity a woman needs to make
time for it and go
with a more experienced friend
who completely enjoys it.
Women
are hard wired to ask questions and talk while men are designed to act.
Staying
on topic is one of the most important ways to prevent fights
as well as resolve conflicts.
Men
need to avoid creating a woman’s feelings and woman need to avoid making
disapproving comments about a man’s thought and actions.
To avoid
fights, take time to communicate that you understand your partner’s
perspective.
Arguments
can be resolved when they are not debates, trials or competitions.
Negotiations
of conflicts requires not
only love but flexibility as well
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