Fourteen Common Mistakes Men Make in a Fight

Raising your voice or becoming cold, sharp or distant in tone.

       

Making  condescending  comments  like “ Don’t  worry about it” You are  making  a big deal  out of   nothing “Instead acknowledge  her feelings, say,  “I see that you are  anxious”.

        

 Interrupting her with arguments to invalidate her feelings or correct her observations.

        

Justifying your actions by making her interpretations wrong.

        

Criticizing putting her down by clarifying what   you are saying.

       

 Expressing frustration with the pace of the arguments.

        

Offering solutions instead of asking   more questions.

        

Correcting her priorities instead of supporting he values.

         

Minimizing her feelings instead of saying nothing and simply listening.

     

Dismissing her feelings while   trying to end the conversation.

       

Having to have the final word.

Tit for tat

      

Giving in to what  she wants  with  an  attitude  that she  is being  unreasonable  or demanding  or simply  making  her the bad  guy.

Making threats rather than expressing preferences.