Thursday, June 6, 2013

Seven Habits of Ineffective People




Be reactive, doubt yourself & blame others.
Work without any clear end in mind.
Think win/lose.
Seek first to be understood.
If you can’t win, compromise.
Fear change and put off improvement.

Ineffective people regress along an immaturity continuum in three different states:-

State of dependency: Others must provide their basic needs & satisfy their wants and desire.
State of counter-dependency: They engage in fight or flight behavior.
State of codependency: They cooperate in rather destructive ways with each others.

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