Men. Women, Sex and Marriage

Is marriage a male convenience or a female device for securing free board and loading or is it refuse for both the sexes?

The whole institution of marriage is a female arrangement to ensure protection and provision while she rears her off springs. The male of the species is a wanderer and of course he has to be so because on him rests the task of finding food. He goes on, “For a man marriage is a trap, for the women its fulfillment”.

Virgin means, literally? Man trap! How? “Vir” in Latin means “man” (from which we have virile) and “gin” of course means “trap”-so man trap!

Women are inherently possessive. Being a women means having this possessive strand inter woven with their very nature. Woman is great possessor, first of her husband, then of her child. Possession means longing for permanence, for an unchanging condition. Woman wants the man to love her forever and ever. She deliberately shuts her eyes to those terrible enemies, Time and change. Men and more realistic. They know that all things pass. And yet it’s precisely out of this tension between the two sexes that civilization has evolved.

Man pushes himself from home and health in order to escape the shackles of wedlock. And so we have travelers, wanderers, explorers-all men like Vasco De Gama, Amerigo, Vespluci, Christopher Columbus, Herman Fernando’s cortes, Sir Walter Releigh. Francis drake, Captain Scott, Hillary, Hunt, Tensing, the list is endless. So also with the spiritual explorers, men like Buddha, Zoroaster, and Mohammad all travelled widely before establishing their religions.

Given a suitable opportunity men are potentially rapists likewise deep down women want to be raped, through no sensible woman will ever admit this.

This is not too late to seek a newer world

Push off and sitting well in order smite

The surrounding furrows for my purpose holds

To sails beyond the sunset and the baths

Of all the western stars, until I die,

it may be that gulfs will wash us down,

It may be we shall touch the happy Isles,

And see the great Achilles, whom we knew.

And yet the pull of woman is equally important.

Germaine Greer says, “The penis is, by itself a relatively harmless and extremely vulnerable member. The fact is, she goes on to say, “the vagina is constructed to deal with the worst that the penis can do. Men are dangerous but penis is the least dangerous part of them. Men do more harm with their hands, with their feet, with their elbows with their knees. If this was not the case, then why women would hardly submit when threatened with bashing, it is worst to be battered than to submit to the sexual act; yet battery is a less serious offense than rape.

If the women suffer from penis envy, the man suffers from penis-anxiety. He is constantly worried about it’s size, its capacity to function, to perform.

Men love power and the machine gives it to them in full measure. The car, the motorbike, the aero plane and going back in time, the horse-all these are extensions of his personality.

While men are physically stronger than women, women are sexually their superiors. The brothel is most decisive demonstrated of woman’s supremacy over man. A prostitute patron spends in two ways. He pays more money and depletes himself while in no way impairing her capacity for more.