Loves wakes men once a
life time each,
They left their heavy
lids and look
And lo, what one sweet
page can teach
They read with joy,
then shut the book
And some give thanks
and some blaspheme
But most forget, but
either way
That likes a child’s
unheeded dream
Is all the joy of all
their day?
We love but once, for
once only are we perfectly equipped for loving. We may appear to ourselves to
be as much in love at other times-so will a day in early September, though it
be six hours shorter seem as hot as one in June.
First look is the one
most worth having, yet the best marriage is often the second, for we should
marry only when the desire for freedom is spent.
The blissful physical
union can never be repeated with the same person and the craving to experience
it again tempts men and women to try it out with other people. They begin to
fall apart. One or the other looks for excuses for misunderstandings that creep
in, they begin to lie to each other. They pretend that their new attachment is
platonic or emotional and not physical. That is the time for the wiser of the
two to put an end to the relationship because the one who wishes to prolong it
in the hope that it may be restored to its initial intensity, is the one who is
going to be hurt.
When a love affair is
broken off, the heaviest blow is to the vanity of the one who is left. So my
advice to those in love who begin to suspect that their affection is no longer
being reciprocated in the same measure is to take courage and be the first to
say “Go To Hell- or in the arms of your new lover”. Leave me alone. I do not
want to have anything to do with you.
Every love affair must
reach a point where it will attain marriage and be changed or decline or
wither. Marriage is an experience everyone should go through and then lives his
own life.
We do not murder the
rival husband or wife but we murder their image. Two fears alternate in marriage,
loneliness and bondage. The dread of loneliness being Keener than the fear of
bondage. we get married.
Marriage is
essentially a dialogue between man and a wife. And if it is carried on
different wave lengths, communication breaks down and it is best not to persist
in it.
Once you have
children, you have to learn the art of appearing to them as being good parents.
They must never be exposed to angry disagreements and if you feel a compelling
need to engage in extra material relationship make sure your children never get
to know about them.
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