Thursday, April 25, 2013

A CALL TO ACTION




Our challenge is to give voice to women whose experience goes unnoticed and whose words go unheard.  Much of the work women do is not valued, not by economics, histories or government leaders.  I want to speak  up for  women  who are  raising children  on the minimum wage,  women  who can’t afford  health care  or child care, women whose  lives are  threatened by violence, including  violence  in their  own homes.

I want to speak up for  women who are working all night as nurses, at hotel desks and as fast food  chefs  so that they can  be at home during  the day  with their  kids and for women  who simply  don’t have  time  to do  everything  they are  called upon  to do each day.

Most women work both inside and outside the home usually by necessity, there is no formula for how women should lead their lives.  We must respect the choices that each woman makes for herself and her family.  Every woman deserves the chance to realize her God given potential.      

Both women and men  are entitled  to a range  of  personal security  to the right  to determine freely the number and spacing  of the children they bear No one  should  be forced  to remain  silent  for fear  of religious  or political persecution, arrest  abuse or torture.

Tragically women are most often the ones whose human rights are violated.  And when women are excluded    from the political process they become even more vulnerable to abuse.

I do not find acceptable to discuss women rights as separate from human rights because:-

(a)        It is violation of  human rights  when babies are  denied  food, drowned  suffocated or have  their  spines broken  simply  because  they are  born girls.

(b)        It is violation of human rights when women and girls are sold into slavery or prostitution.

(c)        It is a violation  of human  rights  when women  are doused  with gasoline, set on fire  and burned to death because  their  marriage  dowries  are deemed  too small.

(d)        It is violation of human rights  when individual women  are raped  in their  own communities and  when thousands of women  are subjected to rape  as  a  tactic  or prize of war.

(e)        It is violation of  human rights  when a leading  cause of death  worldwide  among  women  ages   fourteen to forty four  is the  violence  they are subjected to in their own  homes by their own relatives.

(f)        It is violation of human rights  when  women  are denied  the right  to plan  their  own families  and that includes  being forced  to have  abortions  or being  sterilized  again their will.

We must need the call  to action  so that we can  create a world  in which  every  women  is treated  with respect  and dignity  every  boy and girl  is loved  and cared for equally  and every family  has the  hope of a stable future.    

1 comment:

  1. 1. Everything is fine but first thing is we need to educate both men and women about their rights.

    2. Women should be taught all the self defense tactics.

    3. Women should know that they can say no to something that is oppressive.

    4. Before two people are planing to marry, they can be from any walk of life, should be given proper education of family planning. The women should know how to keep herself healthy during and post pregnancy and how to keep herself safe from getting pregnant again when she is lactating. She should be given proper food and medicine during and after pregnancy.

    5. Families should be given proper education so that they should not discriminate between a boy and a girl.

    6. Child Marriage should be abolished as at tender age is not for marriage.

    7. Marital rape should be taken into consideration as rape only and the husband should be given punishment. Most of the women face marital abuse silently as they are taught that the husband is the god all mighty and this belief should be removed completely. no one has the right to abuse a woman even if that person is her legally wedded husband or even live in partner or even paramour.

    What ever I have said are right now in the most hypothetical stage as it is hardly followed by the educated forget the ones who do not have access to education. In the educated classes itself one can see the stark naked facts staring, the gender discrimination. Gender biased people want boys to to be born in the family any girl is taken as a burden. In the ones who are uneducated they give birth to have more hands to earn and they forget that more hands means more mouth to feed. At that time they sell their sons and mostly daughters who are then sold to the ones who maim them and make them beggars. As for girls, once she is 12 is sold in a brothel and then they get brutalized. Our society has changed completely these days porn can be seen and read too. Books are available that softly excites people and their devils come out to rape. Only education will not do exactly we need stricter law enforced on the society. We need good law makers and law keepers for it.

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