DISCOVER YOUR DESTINY

·         The hidden well spring of your soul must needs rise and run murmuring soul must needs rise and the treasure of our infinite depts. Would be revealed to your eyes.

But let there be no scales to weight your unknown treasures;

And seek not the depths of your knowledge with staff or rounding line

Gravediggs , when you dig my grave , could make it shallow is that I can feel the rains

“When you stumble, there your treasure lies”

·         Every one of us has work to do, no matter how much work we have done on ourself, no matter how evolved we are. Every single of us has a light side as well as dark side. Each one has flaws to mend and wounds to within us that cry out to be healed. Each one has a splintered soul. This condition of imperfection is actually what makes us human

·         The top of one mountain is the bottom of the next that what life is all about. Never ending growth and learning.

·         We grow most from our greatest challenges. Life biggest hurts are, in truth, glorious opportunities for personal growth, positive transformation and reclaiming the authentic power.

·         Life does not listen to your logic, it goes on its own way undisturbed. You have to listen to your logic, it does not bother about logic

·         World is mirror we receive from life not what we want but who we are there are seasons to our lives and painful times never last

·         Suffering occurs when something happens that we did not want. It occurs when life gives us something unexpected, some new condition.

·         Humans are made to experience the growth that comes from visiting foreign places as travelers through life. The unknown is where “the new” exists and the new is only place in the world where you will find possibility.

·         Fear not to unknown, for it is where your greatness resides. Death is only one of many ways to lose your life

·         Courage is not the absence of fear but the willingness to walk through your fear in pursuit of a good goal that is important to you. On the other side of your fear, you will discover your fortune.

·         There are no accidents in life.

·         Motivational speakers are like cotton candy sheet for a few moments but you soon discover nothing lasts

·         Reason rather than passion drives me

·         Doing the same thing and expecting different thing is Insanity

·         In our darkest times we are willing to go deepest when life is good, we live superficially. We are not very reflective.

·         Mind is limited while the heart is limitless. Mind can be cruel. Mind craves external power, things such as money, position and possessions, which are fleeting. When you lose the money, position and possessions, you lose the power. The only power worth anything is authentic power, that which comes from within. Heart has no desire for these minor pursuits. Heart lives in present moments knowing that is where to be lived. Heart is concerned with healing into wholeness love, compassion and service to other human beings

·         Give up the drop, become the ocean. Mind must be used for planning, learning and thinking but the function must be done in concert with the heart. Head and heart must forge and partnership for a beautiful life. Living completely in the heart or head is disaster. It’s all a fine balance which takes time, energy and understanding to achieve.

·         The only thing you can expect in life is the unexpected. If you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans.

·         My morning prayer “god, please help me become the person my dog thinks I am”

·         Your wounds must be turned into wisdom. Most people die at twenty and buried at eighty. Stop living your life as a lie. Be true to yourself and your destiny will come knocking.

·         Leadership is all about lighting candles amidst darkness

·         Path of authenticity – A path that involves living life on your own terms, according to your deepest values and highest ideals. It’s a path that involves living with a wide open heart and a well developed mind. It’s a path that’s all about confronting your fears and the timings that keep you small so you can let your blessing shine.

QUATATIONS FROM WOMEN ABOUT WOMEN

·         The hardest years in life are those between ten and seventy

·         Whoever thought up the word “Mammo gram:? Every time I hear it , I think I’m supposed to put my breast in an envelope and sends it to someone

·         A man’s got to do what a man’s got to do .A women must do what he can’t.

·         Whatever women must do they must do twice as well as men to be thought half as good. Luckily, this is difficult

·         A male gynecologist is like an auto mechanic who never owned a car

·         Thirty five is when you finally get your head together and your body starts falling apart

·         I try to take one day at a time but sometimes several day attack me at once

·         If you can’t be a good example, then you just have to be a horrible warning

·         You see a lot of small guys with dumb women, but you hardly ever see a smart woman with a dumb guy

·         I think…….. therefore I’m single

·         When I was young, I was put in a school for retarded kids for two years before they realized I actually had a hearing loss. And they called me slow

·         When women are depressed they either eat or go shopping. Men invade another country.

·         Behind every successful man is a surprised woman.

·         In politics, if you want anything said, ask a man if you want anything done, ask a woman

·         I am a marvelous housekeeper. Every time I leave a man, I keep his house.

·         If men can run the world, why can’t they stop wearing neckties?

How intelligent is it to start the day by tying a noose around your neck?

·         I never married there was no need. I have three pets at home which answer the same purpose as a husband. I have a dog that grows in every morning, a parrot that swears all afternoon, and a cat that comes home late every night.

·         Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission

·         All change is not growth. Ass all movement is not forward

·         There is one thing stronger than all the armies in the world and that is an idea whose time has come

·         It is very easy to defeat someone. But it is very hard to win someone.

·         When you are in the light, everything follows you. But when you enter into the dark even your own shadow doesn’t follows you.

·         Coin always makes sound, but the currency notes are always silent. So when your value increases keep yourself calm and silent

·         Never play with the feeling of others because you may win the game. But you will surely lose the person for the life time.

·         Laughing phase do not mean that there is absence of sorrow. But it means that they have the ability to deal with it.

·         I wrote on the door of the heart, “Please do not enter”, love come smiling and said “ Sorry ‘m an illiterate”.

·         The world suffers a lot. Not because violence of bad people but because of silence of good people.

·         Peace starts with a smile.

Women!! Women!! Women!! If you advise them they think you are dominating. If you don’t you are not doing anything. If you agree to all their likes, you are sweet, if you don’t, you do not understand. If they call you, they are missing you, if you call, you are disturbing them. If they ask you anything, it’s their right, if you ask, you are interfering. If they care, they love you. If you care, you are very possessive.

Women go for financial security

1.       Although they buy expensive clothes but they say that I don’t have anything to wear

2.       Although they never have anything to wear, they always dress beautifully.

3.       Although they always dress beautifully, they are never satisfied.

4.       Although they are never satisfied they still expect men to compliment them.

5.       Although they expect men to compliment them, when they do, they don’t believe them.

Hurr… women are so impossible.

      ·         There are four sources of knowledge. Proposition, reason, example, conclusion.

·         If you wish to bear fruits, you must go to roots.

·         Self recognition is the understanding that one’s own mind reflection does not represent another individual but oneself.

·         The root of happiness is religion. The basis of religion is prosperity. The basis of prosperity is governance.

·         Good friends don’t let you do stupid things alone

·         A girl take too much time to love and few seconds to hate but a boy take few seconds to love and too much time to hate.

·         The beauty of life is, while we can’t undo what is done but we can see it, understand it, learn from it and change

·         I have learnt so much from my mistakes. I am thinking of making a few more.

·         You cannot help men permanently by doing for them what they could and should do for themselves.

·         Its better to have an enemy who honestly says they hate you, than to have a friend who is putting you down secretly.

Five stages of grieving through with most human beings passed before coming to terms with the possibility of their dying. It is called “Kuber Ross model,” This includes any catastrophic life event that leaves one helpless and forces on to face its emotional consequences

1.       Denial

2.       Anger

3.       Bargaining

4.       Depression

5.       Acceptance

·         In the end what matters most is how will you lived, how well you loved and how well you learned to let go.

TESTED LIFE ADVICE

1.       Wake up and tell yourself that it is going to be good day.

2.       Keep your word

3.       Treat others as you like to be treated

4.       Always have music or books in your life

5.       Eat breakfast. It energizes brain

6.       Don’t lend money, give it or you could lose a friend.

7.       Love people, use things. Never confuse the two.

8.       Don’t put of travelling. See the world while you are able.

9.       Work as hard the last day on the job as you did the first day.

10.   Stay in your lane

11.   Live your life so that preacher does not have to lie at your funeral

12.   Don’t put off exercising. It only gets harder

13.   Do not confuse a want and need

14.   Forgive others you are giving the gift of peace to yourself

15.   If you want things to change in your life. Start with your own thinking.

16.   Take care of your small change and the rupee will take care of themselves.

17.   Treat those below you with the greatest respect

18.   Always do your best

19.   Don’t lie to anyone including yourself.

20.   Find the good in the people. Everybody has something.

21.   Do what is right not what is easy.

22.   Choose what is wise rather than what is fair.

23.   Be calm always

24.   Life is too short, quit hatred

25.    Even when you are nervous, act like you are confident

26.   Make friends

27.   Work hard and believe in your abilities

28.   Don’t be afraid to be different

29.   Don’t smoke, don’t eat junk food. Keep your hamstring stretched.

30.   Never burn a bridge just sheet it down for renovation for a while

31.   Love, don’t nag.

32.   From my grandma. Never give yourself a haircut after three margaritas.

PREVENTIONS OF TOOTH DECAY:

·         Preventions of tooth decay: Poor oral hygiene leads to build up of bacteria that consume the sugars from food resides. This leads to production of acids that dissolve the enamel causing tooth decay

·         Prevention of gum diseases : Gum disease leading to tooth mobility is the main cause of adult tooth loss

·         Prevention of bad breath: Brushing the teeth and tongue reduce bad breath.

·         Maintenance of good physical and systematic health: Sudden oral health deterioration can often be the first sign of an underlying systematic disease.

REASONS FOR DETERIORATION

·         Improper cleaning methods leading to plague and calculus

·         Untreated gum diseases leading to bad breath and bleeding gums

·         Failure to rinse mouth after snacking

·         Smoking and use of tobacco

·         Large cavities leading to food lodgment and halitosis

·         Failure to clean tongue regularly

·         Poor maintenance of dentures

·         Inadequate attention to milk teeth

·         Lack of proper brushing during orthodontic treatment

RIGHT REDRESS AT THE RIGHT TIME

1.       Key points while dealing with complaints

·         Be courteous to employees

·         Encourage him to compliant without fear

·         Listen to his compliant carefully

·         Make investigation process as transparent as possible

·         Be helpful and empathetic

·         Offer guidance and counseling where necessary

·         If immediate action not possible, act the complaints and provide a time frame with in which it will be dealt with

·         Get back with the action taken to complaint

WAYS OF SOLICITING FEEDBACK

·         Direct feedback

·         Suggestion bones

·         Exit interviews

·         Group meetings, discussions and troubleshooting decisions.

PROACTIVE COMMUNICATON

1.       To build the trust :-

·         Exhibit truthfulness & transparency

·         Hiding/delaying information promote rumors

·         Distorted info and rumors causes’ negativity.

·         Spirit of consultation Is lost when people come to meeting with preconceived negative notions.

·         Sharing is the best way to maintain trust

2.       Through proactive communication you can:-

·         Reduce apprehensions

·         Dispel misconceptions

·         Boost confidence

·         Improve productivity

3.       Though complete transparency is neither possible nor desirable, you should always follow and discern information sharing policy.

4.       Honesty communication from top removes speculation and doubt from the minds of subordinates and footer greatest loyalty.

QUOTATIONS

A mountain is not higher than your confidence because it will be under your feet, if you reach the top

The most determinative sentence which should always be followed in life “The race is not over, because I have not won it”

One of the greatest victories you can gain over someone is to beat them at politeness

A single moment of misunderstanding is so poisonous that it makes us forget hundred of lovable moment spent together

An old man said “Erasers are made for those who make mistakes”. A youth replied, “Erasers are made for those who are willing to correct their mistakes” that’s attitude.

Alphabet O stands for opportunity which is absent in yesterday available once in today and three in tomorrow. Never loose Hope

If there is no pressure there are no diamonds, life keeps striking only those who are prepared to become perfect diamond

We are weighted down every moment by conception and sensation of time. And there are two means of escaping and forgetting this nightmare. Pleasures consume us and work strengthens us. So let us choose

The best to get most husbands to do something is to suggest perhaps they are too old to it

Work Imposter   Someone who wants to create the impression he exercises. You will see him/her walking around in gym clothes but the person seldom works out

Perfectionist Paralysis   Inability to start work on anything because you are scared that the finished product may not be perfect

Receptacle Someone who is at the receiving end of a one way conversation. He/she is forced to listen to what the other person is saying. The listener doesn’t contribute to conversation

Joke Insurance When you tell a joke, you want people to laugh. If they don’t, you end up feeling pretty silly. To ensure that at least one person laughs, you take joke insurance with someone. Whenever you tell a joke, this person will immediately start laughing and you will probably laugh when he tells a joke.

Your greatness is measured by your kindness and intellect by your modesty, your ignorance is betrayed by your suspicious and prejudices and your real caliber is measured by the considerations and tolerance you have for others

Never look down upon any one unless you are reaching to help

A great attitude is not the result of success. Success is result of great attitude

A man whose brain works faster than light can perceive future

The only reason people talk behind your back, I because they are always three steps behind. I and public know what school children learn, those      to whom evil is done, does evil in return

Value friendship for what there is in it, not for what can be gotten out of it…

We do not remember days, we remember moments

Sweet memories remind us of the roads we have travelled and the people we have loved

Distance never separates good friends who really care for our memories span and miles and in seconds we are there. When we miss each other we have the sweet memories and moments to remember

When a man retires and time is no longer a matter of urgent importance, his colleagues generally present him with a watch.

Your most unhappy customers are your greatest source of learning

Attitudes are contagious…. is your worth catching? To be honest, sometimes my answer is “no”… and that’s about the time that I need to check my attitude. A positive attitude makes all things bright. Be positive to remain positive

God gave men both penis and brain but unfortunately not enough blood supply to run both at the same time

Adjustment with right people is always better than argument with wrong people. A meaningful silence is always better than meaningless words.

You haven’t lived a perfect life, unless you have given something to someone who will never be in a position to repay you.

You will not change yourself for anyone, but you will you will be automatically changed when you are attracted to someone.

Everybody says mistake is the first step of success, but the fact is correction of mistake is the first step of success.

      Even the longest life is very short when measured against the benchmark of eternity.

     There is nothing more than becoming good at communicating.

  

In order to awaken to your best life, it is important that you die while you are alive. Life waits for no one. Connect with your mortality on a                    regular basis. Everyday should be lived as if it were the last day you had on the planet. Treat everyone you meet as if you would never see them again. Take big risks and seize all opportunities for personal greatness as they present themselves.

     

       The best way to learn is to teach.

Keep listening to the little voice that’s growing within you. It’s the call of your heart and if you trusting in it, it will lead you to where you need to   go. Keep letting the talents you have been given see the light of day. Continue to create value for everyone in your life and keep walking this path, no matter what things may come up.

Every ending is a new beginning

Trust God. He knows your future. He may not reveal it to you but he will walk with you as the future unfolds. Don’t trust the stars; trust the one       who made them.

      Your prestige is in the tip of your tongue.

Many birds die in summer due to lack of water. Place water pots for thirsty birds in terrace compound walls and balconies. Kindly do your tiny         bit. Until one has loved and animal, part of their soul remains unawakened

I have seen castle made out of sand. Met people, who believe destiny is engraved on the palm of their hands. I have seen people change their      faith. Experiment love change into hate. I have seen people grow young with age. And, a bird who wouldn’t fly out of the open cage. I have seen love sold for money. People who are devastated inside but outside they are funny. I have seen the unicorn fall in love with the toad. People who owned half the cities have not hit coal turns diamond over a thousand years. Someone may believe you are one in a million. For others you are just another nobody in the billion. So live life with all that you have. Cherish all yours moments. Happy or sad!! Feel blessed what you are, because life is too short and we are just here for a moment.

If you manage to smile at any situation you are the winner of the highest number of hearts in this world. Face everything with smile you life will be beautiful.

     Define Trust: - “Giving someone the authority to destroy you completely but having the confidence that they would never do it “

  The skill of listening in every executive, mangers and superiors open door way to employee commitment

If wealth is the secret of happiness, then the rich man should be dancing on the streets. But only poor kids do that. If power ensures security, then   official should walk unguarded. But those who live life simply, sleep, soundly. If beauty and fame bring ideal relationships, then celebrities should have the best marriages, but its not there. Simplicity leads the world. Live simply, walk humbly and love genuinely.

   Many times in life realization is not worth because, it comes after we lose something precious.

  The best thing about the worst part of your life is that you get to see true colors of everyone you cared for.

Maximum time of your life you will have to spend in your life in with yourself. So make yourself do interesting as possible, you’ll never get bored.

A man who treats his women as princess is a proof that he has been born and raised in the arms of Queen.

Don’t let the littleness of others bring out the littleness in you

All the answers are hidden in dogs gaze

Never accept, never assume. Never ask and never demand. Want it? Do it make it happen your way.

Life is as great as we make it, as simple as we make and as positive as we make. Enjoy each and every moment as if it a bonus day to live which   is given by God just to us.

Never believe what the lines of your hands predict about your future, because people who don’t have hands also have future. Believe in   yourself.

       There are people so poor that the only thing they have is money.

       They laugh at one because I am different. I laugh at them because they all are same.

      Why do people say grow some balls? Balls are weak and sensitive! If you really want to get tough, grow a vagina! Those things take a pounding

      Circumstances don’t matter, only your attitude towards it matters.

        Be more concerned with your character then your reputation, because our character is what you really are while your reputation is merely what   others think of you.

People are really funny. They spend money that they don’t have to buy things that they don’t need in order to impress people they don’t like.

Smile, it will either warm their heart or piss them off… either way you win.

Even the most powerful man is weaker in front of most happiest person in the world.

Life is like a river which has many turns so enjoy every turn because these turns never returns

Mari aukaat se jyada mujhe kunch na dena mere malik, kyonki jarurat se jyada roshni bhi insaan ko andha banate hai.

Don’t judge a person by what others say. The person may be true to you but not to others because the same sun which melts the ice, hardens the clay too.

Life is only travelled once. Today’s moments become tomorrow’s memory. Enjoy every moment good or bad because the gift of life if life itself.

Thoughts leads to purpose, purpose to go forth in action. Actions form habit. Habit decides character and character fixes our destiny

Most amazing and rare qualities of women! They listen half, understand quarter, think zero, React double and Remember forever.

What is the most dangerous alphabet? “W” because all worries starts with “W”. Who, why, what, where, whom, where, war, wine, women, and finally wife

The best relation is one in which yesterdays fight doesn’t halt today’s communication!!

Success formula to learn from water. Adjust yourself in every situation and in any shape and most important always find out your way.

Definition of marriage. It is like public to toilet. Those waiting outside are desperate to get in and those inside are desperate to come out.

The most beautiful thing in this world is to see our parents smiling and knowing that you are reason behind that smile.

Speak only when your words are more beautiful than silence.

DECISION THAT WORK COMES FROM DISCIPLINED THINKING

·         Success depends upon consistency making high quality decisions.

·         Choosing and implementing best course of action requires disciplined thinking. Following are some pointers for the same.

·         Define Problem

·         Outline what you have to decide and why

·         Frames have enormous power, the way people frame a problem greatly influence the solution Frames the people/organization routinely use for problem control how they will react to everything they encounter.

·         Breaking the problem into logical parts helps in simplifying the issue.

·         Establish Objectives

·         Clearly state the goals

·         Classify the requirements that your solution should meet.

·         Place them in the order of importance.

·         Having too many variables will variables will complicate the problem and make it unmanageable. Keeps things simple right from the beginning.

·         Dwell on a urgency and time available for arriving at a decision.

·         Double other attributes like , who will be involved in decision in decision making, what are the rules of the of thumb to be followed , what process will be used

·         Collect Data

·         Methodically gather all the facts and research for information.

·         Clearly understand the underlying causes, possibilities, probabilities, time constraints, emotions, personal interests or stress and work on avoidable.

·         Guard against the tendency of gathering facts that supports certain conclusion, but disregard facts supporting different conclusions.

·         Develop Alternation

·         Never accept the first feasible option.

·         Keep brain storming and develop alternatives chances of finding a better solution.

·         Only step generating more options when the cost and delay of further search exceeds the benefits.

·         Explore and evaluate the options vis-a-vas the objectives by listing the advantages, disadvantages, effects and implications of each.

·         Eliminate the unfavorable options.

·         Consult experienced people before making final choice

·         Tentative Decision

·         Once settled by best option, visualize the end result by running through the consequences.

·         Action Time

·         Once finalized the decision, commit resources time and money for putting decision into action.

·         No matter how it turns around, take personal responsibility of the decision.

·         Reflect on the decision making to evaluate what was right and what was wrong, to avoid mistakes in future.

·         Consensus Decision Making

·         Means full agreement from all the members.

·         Everyone comes to the decisions making process with a different but equally valid perspective.

·         Each person is entitled to speak

·         This is feasible when the group first resolves so at least mitigates, even the most minor objections.

·         The Process

·         Facilitator frames a topic and the deliberation process is thrown open to whole group.

·         Members are encouraged to articulate differences or dissent and then resolve the disagreements through deep discussion till reaching a mutually satisfactory solution.

·         A dissenting member can choose to declare reservations or show non support while still going along and allowing the proposal to pass, or he can “Stand aside” while he dreams that the decision is wrong and cannot go along with it, but still does not wish to stop others

·         Veto

·         An extreme option to block the entire consensus

·         Consensus does not mean that every member deems the decision ads theirs first preference or the best best choice. What if does signifies is that everyone has understood the matter, shared information, aired their concerns and agree that they can live with the decision while extending their support.

·         They also concur that nobody will talk against the decision outside the group

·         The Aim

·         Members always place the teams need above their own and do not compete for personal preferences, no coercion, trade – off or compromiser anywhere as the group success fully synthesis diverse elements together.

·         This lead to both better decisions and better implementation

·         This improves group relationship dynamics with better connections, trust and cohesion all around.

·         Consensus decision making needs experienced participants who can cooperatively work together.