Sunday, September 14, 2014

The Enjoyment of Living - On Tea & Friendship


I do not think that, considered from the point of view of human culture and happiness there have been more significant inventions in the history of mankind directly contributing to our enjoyment of leisure, friendship, sociability and conversation, than the invention of smoking, drinking and tea.  All three have characteristics in common.  Firstly, they contribute towards our sociability.  Secondly, they do not fill our stomach as food does and therefore can be enjoyed through the nostrils by acting on our sense of smell.

Drinking tea now has become a social institution.

The three enjoyment of tobacco, drinks and tea can only be developed in an atmosphere of leisure, friendship and sociability.  Take a way the element of sociability and these things have no meaning.  Enjoyment of these things like the enjoyment of moon, the snow and the flowers, must take place in proper company.

Certain kind of flowers must be enjoyed with certain type of person, certain kinds of scenery must be associated with certain kinds of ladies, sound of raindrop must be enjoyed , if it is to be enjoyed fully, when lying on a bamboo bed in a temple deep in the mountains on a summer day.  In short, the mood is the thing, that there is a proper mood for everything and the wrong company may spoil the mood entirely.

Anyone who wishes to learn to enjoy life must, as the absolutely necessary condition, find friends of the same type of temperament, and take as much trouble to gain and keep their friendship as wives take to keep their husbands or as good chess player takes a journey of a thousand miles to meet a fellow chess player.  Different types of friends must be selected for different types of enjoyment.  For enjoying flowers, one must secure big hearted friends.  For going to sing song houses to have a look at sing song girls, one must secure romantic friends.  For boating, one must secure friends with an expensive nature.  For facing the moon, one must secure friends with a cool philosophy.  For anticipating snow, one must secure beautiful friends.  For a wine party, one must secure friends with flavor and charm.

An atmosphere of familiarity will then invest the place.  In my get together all formalities are abolished and only the most intimate friends are admitted.  They are treated with rich or poor fare such as I eat and we chat and laugh and forget our own existence.  We don’t discuss the right and wrong of others and remain indifferent to worldly glory and wealth.  We discuss the ancient and modern and play mountains and rivers.  Then we have soup to fit into the atmosphere of delightful seclusion.  This is my conception of the pleasure of friendship.

Tea is invented for a quiet company as wine is invented for a noisy company.  There is something in the nature of tea that leads as into a world of quiet contemplation of life.  It would be a disastrous to drink tea with babies crying around or with loud voiced woman or politics talking men, as to pick tea on a rainy or a cloud day.  Tea is and will always be the beverage of the intellectuals.

The essence of the enjoyment of tea lies in appreciation of its colour, fragnance and flavour, and the principles of preparation are refinement dryness and cleanliness.  An element of quietness therefore is necessary for the appreciation of these qualities, an appreciation that comes from a man who can “look at a hot world with a cool head”. It is important in drinking tea that guests are few.  Many guests will make it noisy and noisiness takes away from its cultured charm.  To drink alone is called “Secluded”, to drink between two is called “Comfortable”, to drink with three or four is called “Charming”, to drink with five or six is called “Common” and to drink with seven or eight is called “Philanthropic”.


Moments for Drinking Tea

When one’s heart and hands are idle
tired after reading poetry.
When one’s thoughts are disturbed
listening to songs and ditties.
When a song is completed
Shut up at one’s home on a holiday.
Playing an instrument,
Looking over a paintings
Engaged in conversation deep at night
Before a bright window and a clean desk
With charming friends and slender concubines
Returning from a visit from friends
When the day is clear and breeze is mild
On a day of light showers
In a painted boat near a small wooden bridge
In a forest in a tall bamboos
In a pavilion over looking flowers on a summer day
Having lighted incense in bed room
After a feast is over and the guests are gone
When children are at school
In a quiet, secluded temple
Near famous springs and quaint rocks.

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