Having a blood relationship makes it easy
for people to love one another. And this is particularly true of parents and
children. Even if a child does not return his parent’s love back, he or she
will continue to receive love.
But relations regarding one’s in-laws are totally
different. A daughter-in-law lives with people to whom she is not related by
blood. If, at her parent’s house, the
culture was one of unconditioned love, the culture at her in-laws would be, ‘in
giving we receive’. This means – that if one is not prepared to give, one will
not receive.
It is quite common for women to consider
their parent’s home ideal, and their in-law’s home less than ideal. But the one who suffers as a result of this
thinking is the woman herself. Due to this way of thinking, she fails to build
a genuine relationship with her in-laws and her husband. God has created men
and women with special, different capabilities so that they may play their
respective roles effectively. But most
women fail to play their roles, and thus leave their potential unutilized.
A joint effort is necessary in order to
play any role in this world. A home is
an institution where such effort is essential for its successful running. The
people in the house should realize this, and make efforts accordingly. This applies more particularly to the woman,
as she is the foundation of a home. And
she can play her part effectively only when she considers her in-law’s home as her own. But such a course of action can be followed
only by those who regard their home as a social institution.
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