AS A MAN is egoistic by nature, and a woman
emotional, they can often be at loggerheads with each other due to their
differences. The difference cannot be
obliterated. The only solution to this
problem is that, when a man’s ego flares up, the woman should keep her calm;
and when the woman becomes emotional and loses her temper, the man must keep
likewise calm. They should not give in
to reactions of any kind. This is the
only solution to this situation.
A negative feeling such as anger flares up
on its own. But, in its initial stage, it remains within a certain limit. And it crosses this limit only when anger is
allowed to intensify. The law of nature
regarding negative feelings is that it gets activated for only about 30
seconds, and if it is checked, it gets defused like a balloon. Therefore, if a person checks his anger, and
does not allow it to flare up, the negative feeling will ebb away naturally,
without there being any negative outcome.
It is necessary for both a husband and a
wife to understand this Law of Nature, which I call the ‘Formula of 30
seconds’. Knowing this is the greatest secret of married life and those who
have applied it in their lives will never have a major crisis in their marital
relations.
The Creator has placed necessary safeguards
within nature itself. The only thing we
should do is to learn of these things provided by nature, and apply them in our
lives. The way of nature is silent
communication. Those who can understand
this language of silence will be able to listen to the voice of nature, and
benefiting from it, will lead successful lives.
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